Collateral Changes 2-Hour Workshop

saturday january 17

10:30 am mountain time

Collateral Changes

Workshop

This isn't a webinar. It's not a training.

It's a live 2-HOUR memory reconsolidation experience where we work with YOUR specific pattern and update the M.U.D. (Misguided Unconscious Decisions) that's been running the show.

I'm IN

WHAT TO EXPECT:

90 minutes live on Zoom (camera optional EXCEPT WHEN VOLUNTEERING) AND participation required
Come prepared with one specific memory or pattern you're ready to work on - nothing massive or early-childhood trauma, just something that's been running your show
You'll be guided through memory reconsolidation process I WRITE ABOUT ON SUBSTACK
Expect real-time shifts - this isn't about "planting seeds" for later; your nervous system updates NOW when conditions are right
Bring water, tissues, and privacy - this work can bring up emotion (that's the release happening)
No replay available - the transformation happens in the live container

"Being a part of Collateral Changes is so beneficial to me as I learn how to change unpleasant memories. I feel safe to share and allow the changes. Nicola is an excellent coach and I feel privileged to be a part of this leading edge group."

-cathy s.

This is for you if:

You keep choosing the "familiar bad" over the unknown good, even when you KNOW it's holding you back

You catastrophize without meaning to, rehearsing worst-case scenarios like your nervous system is trying to prepare you (spoiler: it's not)

You've done therapy, read the books, understood the patterns intellectually, but your body still reacts the same way

You're tired of managing symptoms and ready to update the source code

You recognize that some younger part of you is still voting to keep old patterns in place "because it's all I've ever known"

You want to experience what memory reconsolidation actually FEELS like—not just learn about it

You're ready to work with a specific memory that's been running your predictions without permission

I'm in

Space is limited.

This is not for you if:

You're looking for a recording to watch later (this is live, experiential work - you need to be present)

You want surface-level tips or mindset hacks (we're going deeper than that)

You're not willing to engage with a specific memory (we work with real material, not theoretical concepts)

You're in active crisis or acute trauma (this work is powerful, but it requires some baseline stability)

You just want to "understand" the methodology without doing the actual work (this isn't a lecture, it's a facilitated experience)

What you'll leave with:

Direct experience of what it feels like when a memory actually reconsolidates (not just gets "reframed")

Clarity on what M.U.D. (Misguided Unconscious Decisions) has been running your patterns

A felt sense of what "updating the operating system" means; in your body, not just your head

Understanding of why this work creates collateral changes (when one memory updates, the whole system reorganizes)

i'm in

Memory whisperer

Nicola Vitkovich

"Why I've Been Doing This Since 2018"

Most transformation work focuses on changing behavior or shifting mindset. But I kept watching people struggle—understanding their patterns intellectually but feeling stuck in the same loops.

Then I discovered memory reconsolidation: the neuroscience of how change actually happens at the level of prediction. Not "trying harder." Not "staying positive." Just updating the old decisions your nervous system made when you were younger, under different circumstances, with different resources.

Collateral Changes is where you experience that firsthand. One memory. 90 minutes. Real shifts.

That's why I keep showing up for this work—because when the operating system updates, everything downstream changes naturally. No white-knuckling required.